"Well, what can I say, baby. The world is full of anger and people have a way of saving it up and then dumping it on the next unsuspecting poor soul that gets in their way. Please, don't let this get under your skin, just ignore it. You better *learn* how. Don't let this ugliness in your heart, because in this human form, what's in your heart is what you become." ~~Tess, Monica's Bad Day

"I learned a terrible lesson today. A simple gesture, a hateful remark, a single word can change the world." ~~Monica, Monica's Bad Day

"Guard your heart, Angel Girl. It's the wellspring of life. Well, your heart and your soul's like a river that can be poisoned very easily if you're not careful. You see there, it's started all ready. You let that man get to you and now you've taken up his anger. It's like some kind of a human virus you've caught." ~~Tess, Monica's Bad Day

"I tried to tell you, baby. That attitude that you've caught is contagious. It should have stopped with you, but it didn't. Now it's just going to be passed from one person to the next to the next to the next. And before we get out of here, everybody in this place will have it." ~~Tess, Monica's Bad Day

"Words can be just as dangerous. They have substance and power, and when they come at you in the form of anger, they can tear into a soul and knock it to the ground." ~~Monica, Monica's Bad Day

"You should be back there right now.... thinking that maybe there *are* good reasons to stay alive. But instead you're here, and you're here because of something that *I* did. I didn't even know I was doing it. A river starts with a stream, that began with a creek, and was once a single drop of water. And in life, a world of hate begins with a room full of anger, that starts with a single word--one thought, one act. It should have stopped with me. If I would have just forgiven right there and then, the anger would have died in my heart. But instead it got stronger and uglier and moved from heart to heart to heart until finally it reached you." ~~Monica, Monica's Bad Day

"The gift of mercy is twice blessed; it blesseth him that gives and him that receives." ~~Monica, The Quality of Mercy

When angry: "You gotta do something to let it out because if you don't it just eats you up inside." ~~Andrew, How Do You Spell Faith?

"Why don't you talk to your adversary?  You could start with the truth, always a good technique.  It may not be pretty, but there's a pressure cooker building up in you, and truth is kinda like a safety valve.  Let it out slow and even, and maybe you won't blow up all at once." ~~ Andrew, The Quality of Mercy

"Frightened people often hide behind anger." ~~ Tess, Birthmarks

"Sometimes the act of forgiving is not something you do for the other person but something you do for yourself." ~~ Monica, Something Blue

"With out forgiveness there is no healing." ~~ Tess, The Homecoming, Part I

"Anger is the child of fear." ~~Monica, Full Moon

"No healing can ever begin until first some forgiveness takes place." ~~Andrew, Deconstructing Harry

"I'll tell you something.  It is okay to be angry...  You got to do something to let it out because if you don't it just... it just eats you up inside." ~~Andrew, How Do You Spell Faith?

"Sooner or later the hatred in a man's heart finds its way into his words and into his hands until he finally becomes the creator of evil itself." ~~Sam, Beautiful Dreamer

"You cannot go to God with all that hate in you.  You've got to get rid of that first." ~~Tess, I Do

"When anger turns to hate it becomes a noose around your own neck.  The more you hate, the tighter it becomes." ~~Monica, God Bless the Child

"He understands the pain, the grief, the anger that you feel for the world, for God, even for yourself." ~~Monica, Reasonable Doubt

"I think it takes a lot of faith to be angry at God." ~~Monica, Thief of Hearts

"He created you.  He knows your heart because He made it.  He can see the anger and the pain and the betrayal and the fear that's in it.  But He can also see that love that's still there." ~~Monica, Vision of Thy Father 

"God didn't take anything from you.  These things just happen in life sometimes." ~~Monica, The Penalty Box

"Even friends can disagree." ~~Monica, Chutzpah

"You must not hate what God loves.  And God loves you." ~~Monica, A Rock and a Hard Place

"Fighting hate with more hate is never the answer.  But when we resist evil it loses power." ~~Monica, Two Sides to Every Angel

"Life is not fair sometimes but God always is." ~~Monica, Remembering Me, Part II


"The only thing better than forgiving is being forgiven." ~~Andrew,
Vengeance is Mine (aka Saving Grace) Part II



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